is this information or misinformation???

Aries
The spring equinox, March 21, is the beginning of the new zodiacal year and Aries, the first sign, is therefore that of new beginnings. The young ram is adventurous, ambitious, impulsive, enthusiastic and full of energy. The Arian is a pioneer both in thought and action, very open to new ideas and a lover of freedom. They welcome challenges and will not be diverted from their purpose except by their own impatience, which will surface if they don't get quick results.

Aries subjects are courageous leaders with a genuine concern for those they command, being responsible people, it is rare that they will use their subordinates to obtain their own objectives as leaders, but occasionally it does happen. They do not make very good followers because they are too "take charge". They may be unwilling to obey or submit to directions for which they can see no reason, or with which they disagree. They are much concerned with self, both positively and negatively - self-reliant but also self centered (sometimes) and concerned with their own personal advancement and physical satisfaction. Their immense energy makes them aggressive and restless, argumentative occasionally, headstrong, quick tempered, easily offended and capable of holding grudges if they feel themselves affronted.

As the first sign in the zodiac, you, as an Arian (as you are referred to), is to simply "get something started and lead the way". The Sun in this zodiac position gives your will free rein to express itself. You could be doing this in the form of some leadership role, or by forcing others to look at themselves in a new way. You can accomplish this by knowingly carrying out a deliberate act in the name of some cause that moves you. A negative effect of this sun sign is that you could sometimes unknowingly make it hard for others to relate to you, as you really are.

In your personal relationships Arians are frank, direct and candid, and make enthusiastic and generous friends. You are liable to have a high sex drive and make passionate but fastidious lovers. There is, however, a negative side to your associations with other people. You can easily be irritated by slowness or moderation in your companions and, though yourselves sensitive, ride roughshod over the sensitivities of others. The intensity of your sexual urges can drive you to promiscuity and a Don Juan-like counting of conquests of the opposite sex. It can also trick you into early unwise marriage which may end disastrously. Arians are highly devoted to their children, even to the point of laying down their own lives, so that they might live. You will not find a more defensive and loving parent in all the zodiac.

It is preferable to be aware of your pioneering spirit and not disregard it. For in acknowledging it you not only enjoy life more, but you avoid being pushed around by others. Your nature is usually push or be pushed, with little middle ground. This can at times be objectionable to others, but you must have the freedom to act, rather then just thinking about it, getting pent-up in the process. At all costs you need to avoid negative emotions such as resentment, regret and self-pity, for they would deny you what is essential to your nature: straightforwardness.

Mentally Arians are intellectual and objective, but can be in rare situations bigoted and extremist in religion and politics. They are good champions of lost causes and last-ditch resistance. They are quick-witted but sometimes foolhardy and over optimistic, lacking thoroughness and the ability to evaluate difficulties in the undertakings into which they often rush impulsively. The great need of Aries natives is to exercise an iron self-control, to discipline the qualities and tendencies of their character to the advantage, not the detriment, of the society in which they move.

As an Arian, you like a challenge that will stir you to action. This challenge may just be frustration; or at a more controlled level, you may have clear direction and know what or whom you're fighting for. If your direction is not clear, then ask yourself and listen to your inner voice. You will come up with an answer. An Arian without a direction in which to go, or a without a cause to fight for, would be against your nature and make you more a "sheep" then a ram!

Arian, do not be afraid to be forceful, for this is the very core of your nature. If you feel fear in your heart, then look for a history of negative events in you personal history, such as violence or abuse from others. Being fearful may also indicate a household in childhood that negated independence and personal initiative in you. This could have inhibited your natural urge to go forward into life as the leader and champion you were born to be. Conversely, such bad influences could also have led you to be overly forceful, or to be unsympathetic to your own need and sensitivity.

You make good athletes and climbers, doctors, explorers (of new ideas as well as uncharted territory, the latter in these days including adventuring into outer space), soldiers, sailors and airmen, and leaders, though awkward subordinates, in industry and politics.

Much as you are the Ram, there is still the little lamb in you, which means that at times you would attain your goals more easily by gently giving in without resistance to the demands of a given social situation, rather than getting your horns entangled in something larger and more powerful than yourself. This is a talent akin to knowing the difference between what you can change, and what you cannot. This of course takes patience, the acquiring of which is definitely your greatest achievement, along with your sense of your own inner softness.
Possible Health Concerns...

Aries governs the head and brain, and Arians are said to be prone to headaches, particularly migraines, sunstroke, neuralgia and depression. Indigestion and nervous disorders are also threats to you, and your rashness, impetuosity and wholesale physical commitment make you liable to accidents and physical injuries.

You like extremes. Physical, emotional and mental, and benefit profoundly by experiencing them; but if your extremism goes too far beyond social acceptability, then expect to be extremely lonely.

tell me is this me?????

i wish i had not grown up.

i fell like i should not have grown up..
i feel like being a kid would have been better,,
alot of complications make you mad.. and many things start rushing at you like waves upon you in the open sea..choking you and depriving you off your air..

i wish i was taken care off with less to do less to worry but i can;t..
on the other hand i wish i were independant..but without pple to hold me back and tell me wat to do and wat not to do..
sigh

i lived in singapore as in most developing nations have been trying to push things in the country to its supposed "optimum" state.. wats that all about.. to maintain competitiveness.. i feel its bull sh#t.. humans are organisms.. even machines running at "optimal" rates breakdown.. thsi may sound sad but i feel we as its pple has been explioted kinda like machinery.. you lost your worth after awhile..
and because of all this competitvieness kids start studyning earlier and harder..
does the country or the world have to grow that fast?
and right now degrees are fiiling our land like leftovers..
is that the only way to gauge people to get them job.. and this world has become a hard stonecold society esp. in urban areas.. where humans see each other as separate entities and this makes the society separated..
basically my life sucks..
and everyones life sucks..honestly..apart form like taking it slow..and taking a break at times..
its virtually impossible..
take it slow and your boss slacks your ass..
take a break .. like you can afford to..
we have been enslaved by the system.. and eventually phds won't be enough for a managerial post no more..
its going down..

i think i should go jump now..

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coincidence??luck??

ever believed in such things..like chance and luck..

it seems that every time whne you ae in dire need for something and when you dun need it. you won't find it.. but when you are just lazing around you will just see it..
you get wat i am trying to get at..

then in some cases.. when your luck is better..you get wat you want..

like today..
i started my day with a smooth ride to school ..and later.. i did a bit of studying and stuff.. then came my bonus..
went to meet up with a really nice frend of mine..
for lunch and a movie... got to watch avery long engagement..super man..have been wanting ot see that show fro so long since i saw the poster.. then now finally.. hhahahahaha

so the rest is as such.. in the mean time i'm still here typing...

haste..not such a bad thing afterall...

MARCH:
Attractive personality.sexy. Affectionate.Shy
and
reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest,
generous
and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity.
Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others.
Easily
angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and
returns
kindness. Observant and assesses others.
Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize.
Loves
traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in
choosing partners. Loves home decors.
Musically
talented. Loves special things. Moody.

i was beginning to wonder if i've been taking things too hard..
today on valentines day.. cleared up loads from my mind..

feels great to be free of worries...

may sound like i am nuts but i really like someone..but i was ready enough to let go...feels stupid... but.. its only through do i realsie.. i like her..but.. it feels good to let such things go with the flow...

holding my breath...

okok.. no pun intended as in i dunnot have bad breath .. and hence the title..hehe

well
today.. would be one of the down days..haven been feelin like this since a few months back i guess..

i am beginning to wonder if i am who i wish to be..
and i am seriously doubting myself and my ability to survive on this planet..

well today.. for one reasion i felt ..helpless..hopelessly helpless..
i was in front of my computer.. and reading this one other perosn blog.. to check for updates.. and surfing the net aimlessly..all through i had someone.. in my mind..even till now..pple who have read this must have found it boring by now.

well i miss this girl and i kinda like her.. but.. i am at this point of not knowing how close am i to love or like..all i feel towards this person is an attraction... and it has been ever isnce i first saw her and established contact with her...worse was when i said we could be friends at one point.. and it made me regret till this day..

should i just give up???
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butterfly in the subway

this must be my umpteenth entry about you've got mail..but.. a closet romantic as i am .. has and is still very much in love with the film...ahhaha

well today its sheer coincidence..i was takin a regular bus ride when i saw this scene that is delightfully coincidental..many of you must be thinking taht i am on some coloured cloud whispering words of the unknown to my own peewee of a brain...but this is for real...

in you've got mail..

"Once I read a story about a butterfly in the subway, and today I saw one. It got on at 42nd and off at 59th, where I assume it was going to Bloomingdale's to buy a hat that will turn out to be a mistake. As almost all hats are."

in a day in myloh's life...

on the supposed lonesome and stuffy ride back to school.. i was greeted by this pleasant surprise of having a humming bird appear infront of my very eyes in the bus.. although it was kinda painful seeing the bird trying to get out.. but always flying into the glass.. some ignorant fool was trying so hard to swat it.. like it was a mutant housefly..thank god he stopped.. he was going to poke someones eye out for god's sake..and people were so bent on wackin it..can't they just sit stilll and marvel and a sight of nature that most of us dun get to see sometimes in our entire life in flesh...instead of trying to wack it..althoughi would agree that it is a tad bit distracting to those who want to sleep and the driver..but strangely enough .. the bus driver was not the least bothered...

someone please tell me why..does the concrete jungle we live in.. only treasure wildlife when we see them in the zoos???