oh .. love is a gawdy issue ..really..

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honestly.. once you try to type it repeatedly it does get a tad blurry..

alot of pple lose sight of things.. and i have to say. i'm not really helping..

and writing a lover issue themed blogroll over a bogroll and topgear playing in the

adjacent window doesn;t really help.

well the thing is .. love should be love passion and obsession..

but in the current society.. where pple dun live as long as just enough to discover they are naked..eat an apple.. cover themselves with leaves and make out..

we need alot more to substantiate a relationship these days..

its alot to worry about..

how to find..

the perfect girl/guy

how to see if he or she is the "perfect one"

then.. you date..

but if you weren't happy with it..

breaking up.. involves war for awhile.. then finally a break which leaves both sides in abit of a dog's breakfaast.

much later.. the guy may feel guilt and decide to go at it the second time.. cos maybe she'd have changed.. or vice versa.. you know the guy gal thing.. i am really not that diligent..

then after he or she foudn the perfect one..

the marriage becomes an issue.. where to register.. where to hold the dinner.. which church.. etc..

then.. the flat.. or the condo.. or the island..

then.. kids.. boy or gal..

then...like wth..



so as you can see. the story is plenty complicated.. arrrrghhh...

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the thing is this..

there are so many love stories in my life.

i'm not saying they are all mine.

mine are always the i have a crush on you sorta thing...
so no resolution on that i guess.. hahah..

well.. wat made me write this piece would really be a friend's situation.. and i am god thankful tt the tumultuous times are mostly over..

its a case of not enough communication.. imprecise communication.. insecuritities..

alot of guessing.. and worse still both parties of the couple were my friends.

the girl happen to be one of my closest friends .. while the guy happens to be one of the guys that i happen to just be able to clique on things mostly.. and we were classmates.

when the conflict began i felt guilt cos i intriduced them to each other initially..

then later i got really guilt ridden..

the girl confided in me about the stuff.. and i had to be impartial..

whilst the guy was being all silent.. and irresponsive..

i was getting worried..

i was afraid.. that it might have been over cooked...


well.. just so you know.. all is well.. i honestly wish things will get better and stay better for a long long long long time for these two at least..