a dream of some one..

well alot of pple tend to like to ask questions.. most of which i ahve encountered are with regards to my personal life on whether i was or am or ever goign to be attached..how was i supposed to answer this question..me being all drowned in work and hardly the felxible time enough to go about doin anything close to even bgf let alone dating and goign into something serious...

strictly speaking alot of pple i have seen do not long to be attached.. most of which ahave a care free lifestyle that they are not willing to abandon..but issit really so bad.. some how.. some examples do go that bad.. while others seem alot better.. can't seem to figure it out..i mean can't guys now be a little more romantic when it comes to guy talk.. it is not always about ego massage.. it is more like exchnage of truths that most would not do infront of a the opposite sex..either some guys dun want to admit or are too afraid to admit or just plain dun like to do "mushy" stuff..which is it??

is it so hard to imagine waking up and smelling your wife's hair and giving her "thimbles" before goign to the kitchen to whip up a simple breakfast and perhaps coffee and at the same time remebering how she likes hers.. whether with sugar or wat kind of sugar and how much milk maybe.. and maybe she would do it for you in return..perhaps..or maybe just a brunch picnic at the botanic gardens..life seems so much more "tunable" this way.. marriage does not have to be the same drag man..guys wake up .. smell the roses ( and get a few for you "darlings")...

the above seem fantastic in our fast paced world the above seems impossible..well by the will of the human spirit.. i think its possible..small things like this i think are more "heartstring strumming" then i think a posh dinner in a seven star hotel where everythig is prepared for you..it feels warmer and cozier..

back to getting attached.. pple who have seen me do know that i am a tease ass and an idiot who really is not all noraml except for maybe my having nose ears and eyes + my piehole....so dun bother asking.. till the day when it happens i think i would have to wait (damn long!!!)...

but there is that dream of someone..

till the next post.. ciao